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Will we offer up our Greatest Defeat?

This post, in many ways follows on from a past post, Is your Greatest Trophy, just a Foundation Stone?

Quick summary of that post…
The thing where you think that you are the Best at. Will you take it out of the trophy cabinet, where pride could possibly be a snare to you?
Will you offer it up to Our Lord, and be willing to step onto it, in order to step into the new, that is waiting for you to take hold of?
For the full picture, please consider having a read of the post, Is your Greatest Trophy, just a Foundation Stone?

As well as our Greatest Trophy, my eyes have recently been opened up to our greatest defeat. The things that we would rather not look at. The things that we would rather hide away, and not have to deal with.

Sometimes, not looking at our greatest defeat, can be the right course of action to take, if we are lead to do so, by Our Lord God.
If He says to us, “This is not to be dealt with today, but perhaps another time.” Then we should listen to Him.
The enemy may want to pull us down by trying to make us dwell on the wrong things, but Our Lord, leads and guides us, to the things that will bring us a freedom, as we walk through them, at the right time, with Him.

But, if Our Lord God, brings up our greatest defeat, the thing that we would rather run and hide from, will we be willing to place it before, Our Lord God Almighty, and simply ask, “Please, Help me with this Lord! Help to know what to do and where to go with this!”

It maybe a difficult and painful thing to do, but Our Loving Heavenly Father is for us, and wants to see us set free, and made stronger, by working through our greatest defeat, with His help and guidance.
He longs to see us free from the pain and anguish, that Our greatest defeat would try to hold over us.

If we can place our greatest defeat before Our Loving Heavenly Father, will we then find ourselves in a place where we can exchange our shame for Joy?
Will He then change our mourning to dancing?
Will He take our Ugly Rock, and reshape it into an exquisite sculpture, that we will then want to show to all, declaring,
“Look at what The Lord has done for me, He has turned my mourning to dancing!
He has taken my shame away, and given me peace and joy, in it’s place.”

I know that this can be a reality, as I have gone through this process.
I was given a picture, and then I had to walk through the process of the picture. For me, this then lead to a mini series of posts (numbering 5), that I was very happy, that most people just wouldn’t see. (The doors maybe open, but not many people come in to read. 🙂 )
Time has gone on since then, and I can now talk to people about what happened. I can now even point you to the mini series of posts and say, have a read of them if you wish to.
I can now look at it, and say, “This is just something that happened, and it’s not my fault. It is just something that happened and is now just part of my past.”

The first in the series is:
Will you work with Our Lord, to shape, your Ugly Rock?

If you just want the big reveal, then chapter 4 is:
When the wheels fell off.

Our Lord God, IS in the business of setting captives free!
Of turning mourning into dancing!
Of exchanging shame for Joy!

So if Our Lord God asks for your greatest defeat, will you offer it up to Him?
Will you offer it up, to The One who Can set you free?

John 10:7-11
7 Therefore Jesus said again, “Very truly I tell you, I am the gate for the sheep. 8 All who have come before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep have not listened to them. 9 I am the gate; whoever enters through me will be saved. They will come in and go out, and find pasture. 10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

11 “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.

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Is it, Simply Complicated, or Complicatedly Simple?

The title of this post might sound like a lot of nonsense, but I do think that there is something to it. It’s a kind of, is the glass half empty of half full post.
(No, I’m not listening to the engineer who thinks that the glass is twice as big than it needs to be. 🙂 )

In all tasks, we can normally see parts that are complicated and simple in varying measures. The question is, how are you left feeling about the task at hand?

Are you left thinking, “This is simply complicated!” ? Or can you flip it around, to then be left thinking, “This is just complicatedly simple.”?
The order you place the two words in, can make a big difference.

If you see an issue as simply complicated, then it’s seeing, that there are some simple bits, but the overall impression is one of, “It’s too difficult!” It can leave us in a position of, “Where do I go now?”

If we can flip the two words around, so we then have “complicatedly simple”, then can we change our perspective?
The complications remain, but if we can break down what we need to do to smaller manageable pieces, or even just the next bit to do, then can we see the simple bits that we can do, even though the whole picture remains a bit complicated?
Hence we can end up with something that is “Complicatedly Simple”, where we can see what the next steps are.

So, when difficulties arrive, how will we see them?
Are they simply complicated?
Or can we flip it around to be Complicatedly Simple?

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How do you cope when, the wheels fall off?

I had hoped that my ugly rock posts, had finished last week. But it appears that I have at least one more.

This week’s post follows on from last week’s post of, When the Wheels Fell Off.

Those of you who read last week’s post will know that I was in a situation where I could only see two options, neither of which, I liked. The simple way of looking at those options was, endure the hardship, or run away from it.
There was actually a third option, but I never saw it.
The third option could be called, highlight the problem in such a way, so that a release can be found.

How do we tap into option three, when we don’t even know, that it is an option?

The short answer to this question, has to be, “Hear what your Heavenly Father is speaking to you, about the way you should go.”

Unfortunately, this is not an easy thing to do, when you are in a stressful situation. Because the stress, can just seem to take over.
It can sometimes feel like, “You have TWO Options, THIS or THAT!
CHOOSE ONE!”

Even the thought that there is a third option, can seem like an impossibility. So how can we see the very thing, that we don’t even know about?

Psalm 121

1 I lift up my eyes to the mountains—
    where does my help come from?
2 My help comes from the Lord,
    the Maker of heaven and earth.

3 He will not let your foot slip—
    he who watches over you will not slumber;
4 indeed, he who watches over Israel
    will neither slumber nor sleep.

5 The Lord watches over you—
    the Lord is your shade at your right hand;
6 the sun will not harm you by day,
    nor the moon by night.

7 The Lord will keep you from all harm—
    he will watch over your life;
8 the Lord will watch over your coming and going
    both now and forevermore.

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It’s great to read a passage, like the above (and it is a truth for those who seek The Lord God Almighty.) But how do we tap into the help, when we need it most?

I now know that I should have called for an ambulance when my wife was on a hospital ward, not getting the care that she should have. (My third option, that I didn’t see.) But just how do we see, the something else, that we could do?

Could we possibly try to seek help from outside the situation?
To hear or see the extra option, that is just outside of our grasp?

Sometimes, these things can happen so easily, that it just amazes us.
I was recently trying to make a purchase, dealing with a salesman. The deal had been made when a different person came over (without introducing himself), whilst the salesman was away, and told me that there was a problem.
As such there were two options, of this or that. I didn’t like either option, and was feeling pressured to make a choice between the two options.
Then out of my mouth came the words, “Could we have a moment to think about this, and then we can discuss this with the salesman.”
The person in front of me, agreed to this, and then walked away.
The issue was then dealt with in a better way, with the salesman (who was much friendlier).

It was one of those instances of seeing the extra option, without even really looking for it. I know it’s a bit of a small silly thing, but a tense situation was avoided, by just speaking out, something different, that just came to my mind.

Seeing the extra option, can make a big difference, if we are able to see, or hear it.

I would love to finish this post by giving you a list of helpful advice that would speak directly to you and your personal situation, but I can’t. I’m only a man after all.
But I can point you to One who is Greater than all of us, who DOES have the answers. Who does know your personal circumstances.
Our Lord God is Mighty and is able to help all. It will be so good for us, if we can seek Him and His wisdom for where we should go. He is the one who can point us to the option, that we weren’t even looking for.

If you are directed to, then please consider re-reading Psalm 121. (There is a copy of it, just above in this post.)

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When the wheels fell off.

Even as I’m posting this, I’m still thinking, “Are you sure??”
Posting this, in some ways, feels like lighting a stick of dynamite.
Lord, into Your hands I commit this post.

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My last post ended with, “Will I share my ugly rock?” I still don’t know the answer to that one, at the present moment. I’m still in the, take the next step phase of things, so with that in mind, I’ll just keep trying to write it out. Just as if I’m having a conversation with myself. (Leaving the question of to publish or not, to another day.)

I’m coming to the understanding that my wife’s care, in the early days, was medically negligent.
It’s not nice to think that mistakes were made, but I feel that they were. The full measure of those mistakes, I may not ever even know. A conversation with a family member, just opened my eyes to a few things that I was unaware of, or just forgotten. But I do know that one night, it felt as if I was caught in a Medical Mexican Stand Off, with the hospital staff.

I have previously written about our bad time, but I had mis-written one night in particular.
In the previous post of Something of our Testimony Part 1, I had written about a bad night, and stated that my wife received treatment before I went home. The truth of that night is very different to that fantasy. What follows next is the truthful account of what happened, that night.

My wife was having seizures, and the nurses were following the doctor’s last instruction on how to deal with them. It was, “Let’s just ride this out and let it run its course, it’s only a small one, and let’s not use medication, if it’s not needed.”

That sounds like a good thing to do, if they are small and infrequent, as they were, when that course of action was decided to be taken.

But what about when things change?
When they change slowly, so that the changes, are not so obvious to see?
How long do you keep following that same thinking?

In the nurses case, the answer was all the way to the end of their shift, and then the next nurses, take over, with a hand over of, “This is what has happened.” Then possibly, “We are following the advice of the doctor, which is…. . The relatives have been a bit of trouble, we’ve just stayed out of their way.”

I don’t actually know what was said in the hand over, but the new nurses, didn’t speak too much to us. Even though it was getting late into the night, and visiting time was long gone. And we (at some point in time, my Mum had joined us) were still there, waiting for something to happen, to help my wife. Who by this time, was now having frequent seizures, of a greater magnitude, which the nurses appeared to be not concerned about. (At this point my wife was not on a neurological ward.)

We had asked, insisted, that a doctor be involved and was in a constant state of, “Something has to change soon.” But nothing appeared to be happening.
I can remember seeing someone who looked as if they were a junior doctor, speaking with the nurses, (I can’t remember if it was the new or old shift nurses, but I think it was the new shift nurses) and then they were gone.
Still no change in the treatment (or lack of treatment.)

We had both reached the point of desperation.
I had gone through outright aggression, almost having a full blown row with one of the the original shift nurses. Only averted because I walked out, to get some breathing space. When I came back, it appeared that the nurse was ready and waiting for round two. I believe that I just didn’t engage in round two, but just tried to concentrate on my wife.

Is this part of the reason of, why the staff didn’t engage with me that much?
Is it part of the reason of why we were never asked to leave?
It was well into the sleeping hours of the night, before we left.

The fact that it was into the sleeping hours of the night, also meant that I didn’t want to make a fuss, and then disturb the other patients on the ward, whilst still wanting and waiting for my wife to be seen, and cared for.

With hindsight, I know that I should have called for an ambulance.
There wasn’t an A & E department at the hospital my wife was staying at, so I couldn’t just wheel her down to the A & E department. But I am sure that I should have called for an ambulance, or at least made the threat to do so, and if needed, to then just do it.
But I didn’t, and we are where we are.
Would it have made a difference, if I had called for that ambulance???
I just don’t know.

In the end, out of sheer desperation, me and my Mum just left.
We were thinking, “If we are not here, creating a screen that the nurses can’t see through, then perhaps they will see her, and then give her the care that she needs???”
I now firmly believe that this was a mistake, and that we should have called for an ambulance, but at the time, we could only see the two options. Remain, waiting and hoping that something will happen, while wondering, are we part of the problem, by being a screen that is stopping the nurses from seeing what is going on.
Or just go, and hope that they then actually see my wife, and then do something to help her.

As I have said, looking back it feels as if it was a Medical Mexican Stand Off. A stalemate, nowhere to go, with no good options.
Option 3, of call the ambulance, was just not in our minds.

Why would it be?
My wife was in a hospital, under medical care of people who should have known what they were doing. Who would think that calling for an ambulance, whilst someone is on a hospital ward, would even be an option.
It shouldn’t be an option.
You should be receiving the care, that you need, if you are on a hospital ward. Not just left to get on with it.
If she had been at home, we would have called for an ambulance, and then been taken to the A & E department, and then been cared for. But instead, she was on a ward, by and large, being ignored.

Did our life changing consequences occur because of that night?
Or had they already happened?
Or were they even just waiting to happen?
… I just don’t know the answers to these questions.

What I do know, is that as I left that night, I didn’t know if my wife would be with me, or not, the following morning?
I didn’t know if she would survive the night?
In some respects, I said goodbye to her, as I left.
Not knowing if we were doing the right thing or the wrong thing. But also not knowing what else to do?
Both me and my Mum where at our wits end, just hoping that they they would now just see her, and give my wife the care that she needed.

Did she receive any help or care, after we left, or was she just left to, “ride it out”, all night long … ???
Again, I just don’t have the answer to this question.

The next time I heard about my wife, was from my wife’s Mum. She had called the hospital, and had been told, “She is sleeping peacefully.” (My wife’s parents were a two hour journey away.)
Was she actually sleeping peacefully, or was she slowly edging closer to disaster day, when she was just a step away from just going, unseen by the staff, because they thought that she was just, “sleeping peacefully”?

I was completely wiped out by this point. A walking zombie.
Along with everything written above, we were still coming to grips with a miscarriage, which was the very start of the misadventure. With everything that was going on, the miscarriage was now low down on my list of concerns.

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It’s been a few days since I wrote the above.
After I wrote it, I was thinking, “What good can come from this?” I’m still partly wondering that.
But as time is going by, I’m starting to find that it’s not quite so raw, anymore. In some ways, this feels a little bit weird. I know what happened, and I am kind of aware that I should be outraged by all that had gone on, but a strange, dare I say it, sense of peace seems to be taking the place of the hurt. … ???
I would like to say that I’ve got a complete sense of peace, but that would be a lie. But I’m not as agitated as I think I should be?
Am I heading towards that greater sense of peace???

Is this journey towards peace because of three little words that I have been trying to apply into lots of situations?
Am I now able to apply them to my ugly rock, and then see a difference happen?

I would like to say that it had been easy, but it hasn’t been.
I would like to say that it all done in one sitting, but it wasn’t. Some moments were maybe 30 seconds of thinking something, then accepting it. Another moment could have been letting go of something by forgiving ones who came to my mind, myself included.
I’m struggling to think if I have repented of anything, but it may have been in there???

The three little words that I’m thinking of are, Accept, Repent and Forgive, There be Power Here!
It seems to be more evident to me that applying three little words, can lead to a release and a freedom from pain.

I would like to think that I am fully cured from the effects of what has happened to me and my wife, but I do think that could be a bit of wishful thinking. We are still currently living with the consequences of what has happened, although we are waiting for my wife to be completely healed. But I do believe that a large chunk of the pain and hurt has gone. Hopefully, that will continue as time goes on.

To publish or not?
I’m now leaning towards publishing. (If you are reading this, then the answer is evident.)
I will still seek guidance from my Lord God Almighty for the answer to that one. He does have the Power of Veto over me, after all.
I do have the small comforting thought that most of what I write, only gets seen by a very small number of people. So it will more than likely, only be a small something, seen by a few. 🙂

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This post was the latest from a series of posts.
For reference, the previous posts are listed below.

Will you work with Our Lord, to shape, your Ugly Rock?

It seems that I have my own Ugly Rock.

Will I share, What my Ugly Rock is?

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I thought that this post was going to be the end of the mini series, but there was one more.
The last post in this series is…
How do you cope when, the wheels fall off??

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Will I share, What my Ugly Rock is?

This post follows on from the previous post of, It seems that I have my own Ugly Rock.

The short version of what is my ugly rock, is, … It’s a bad decision I made, a long time ago.
It’s something that I walked away from, partly thinking, “If I’m not here, then what is happening will be that much clearer, and then something will happen. Perhaps my being here is part of the problem ?”
With hindsight, I know that, that was bad thinking, and that I should have stayed, and carried on fighting for someone who was unable to fight for themselves.

The consequences of walking away that night….

I don’t know! I just don’t.
After I left, did what needed to happen, happen, or did nothing happen, which then lead to further complications later, which has then led me and my wife to, where we are today?
As I have said, “I just don’t know.”

I’ve had the scene from Good Will Hunting run through my mind, when Robin Williams (the actor) has Will’s history file in his hands, and is talking to Will. He states, “This is not your fault.” To which Will replies, “I know it’s not.” (Or there about.) The conversation repeats itself several times, until Will, truly starts to accept that, it’s not his fault.

The thought of. “It’s not my fault” helps.
I’d like to say that the thought is a magic wand, that removes all the pain, but it’s not. It does help, and I need to listen to the thought, even if I’m not convinced that it’s true. Listening to the thought seems to be part of accepting what has happened.

On some level, I do know, that it isn’t my fault, but doubts can have a way of trying to worm their way in. There is a need to be aware of this, then to send them away, when they try to make an appearance.
I have a need to seek, then Hear, what my Heavenly Father is speaking to me about the situation, and the thought, “It’s not your fault” is in the room.

The title of this post was going to be, “What is my Ugly Rock?” But so far, I feel that I have only given the slightest glimpse of what it is.
To properly answer that question, feels like I’ve got a box of matches, and that there is a stick of dynamite, in the ugly rock, that I need to light. I also have no idea of how powerful the stick of dynamite is!

Will it just blow away the shame and guilt that is present, or will it shatter the ugly rock into a thousand pieces, that’s just going to make a bigger mess?
I have been speaking to a few trusted people, and I’m coming round to the idea that it will be just blowing away the shame and guilt, but I can’t know that, until the fuse is lit.

In the picture, the matches were found amongst the smaller stones and rubble, as I made the choice to clear the smaller stones, as I was directed to.
The thought kind of goes, sometimes you can find the tools that you need, as you do the small bits that you can do, as you are directed to do so.

There is another thought that goes with lighting of the dynamite.
It’s to follow God’s direction of where to stand, after lighting the dynamite. If you are going to light a stick of dynamite, then it’s good to be behind a blast screen. If The Lord tells you “Stand here”, and The Lord places Himself between you and the rock, with the dynamite in it, then that is a good place to be.
Allow God to be your blast screen.

Will I actually light that fuse though?
Will I tell my secret to all or just a trusted few?
At the moment, I still don’t know the answer to that one. I’m still in the process of taking the next step.
At times I’m like, “Let’s just put it all out there!” Then I try to write a post to do just that, but end up just putting a few glimpses together, in a post, that then needs the title to be renamed. 🙂

So, what’s the next step now???
Will the stick of dynamite be such a small blast, that everyone will think, “What was all the fuss about?”
Will it be so small, that it will go by, completely unseen, except by the few who just happen to be looking in the right direction as it goes off?
Will it even go off? Could it be that something that is so huge in my mind, is actually a nothing, in everybody else’s view?
Or could it be, that the blast could be bigger than I can see?
Could the blast and the shrapnel travel further and faster than I would ever want it to and leave me thinking “What have I done?”
Am I ready for what comes next?
It feels as if it could be something, but it also feels that it could be nothing.

Lord, please continue to direct my steps.
Please help to know when, or even if, I should light this stick of dynamite.
If I do light it, then help me to know where to stand, in safety, under Your protection.

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The next post in this series is already written.
I’m still seeking a yes or no to post it, or not?
I’m inclined to post it, but my Heavenly father does have the power of veto over me.

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The answer of to post, or not, was a “Yes”
The next post is,
When the wheels fell off.

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It seems that I have my own Ugly Rock.

Sometimes, I write something, and then I have to do, or go through the very thing, that I’ve just written about. Recently I wrote, Will you work with Our Lord, to shape your Ugly Rock? To then, … well, This week’s post was the start of me working through something.

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Recently something has come back to my mind. Something that happened a long while back, that I had just buried. I’ve been trying to re-bury it, but now that it has resurfaced, it won’t go back down.
I’m now left with replays, and all the “what if” questions.

The “what if” questions do me no good!
I know this, I’ve even written a previous post about this of,
Cut away the Veil of What If’s.
I know that I need to focus on “what is”, instead of “what if”. But knowing this and doing this are two very different things.

I’ve had the nagging thought of, “just write it out”, but I don’t want to. I’d rather just bury it again, and not look at it, but I can’t seem to do that.
So here is my first look at writing it out.

I write it, with the full knowledge that, because it’s written, it doesn’t mean that it has to be published. Some things can be written out, and then never shared. It is OK to do this!
If I do change my mind at a latter date, then that is a decision for a tomorrow. For today, I will just take the next step and just write what I write.

The Lords prayer does say, “Give us Today, our Daily Bread.”
So I shall, just try to do today, that which I need to do today, and let tomorrow deal with itself, when it comes around.

(Verse 34 is the bit that came to my mind, but a quick search found the whole passage below.)

Matthew 6:25-34
Do Not Worry
25 “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? 26 Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? 27 Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

28 “And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29 Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30 If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? 31 So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34 Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

You maybe asking, “What is this rock that you have then?”

That is something for me to try and write out tomorrow (possibly), which might or might not be published.
One step at a time, is the way to try and work through this.
I’ll just keep trying to take it to My Lord, and ask, “What do I do with THIS?”

If you have your own ugly rock, then I can only suggest that you try to do the same. Take it to The Lord Your God, and ask Him, “Help me with this Lord.”

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(Just a heads up, next weeks post is already written, and will follow on from here. I have worked through most of the process by now.)
The next post is,
Will I share, What my Ugly Rock is?

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Will you work with Our Lord, to shape, your Ugly Rock?

This is part of a picture, that has been forming over the weekend.

I saw a rock, in the middle of a scene. It was an ugly rock with many sharp edges. The rock was not wanted, and the owner would like for the rock to be just removed.

Sometimes, The Lord, will remove the ugly rocks in our lives. But at other times, He has a different route.

Sometimes, The Lord will say, …
“This ugly rock, that you feel is worthless and full of shame and anguish. Well, let’s just work on it together.
There is a work that needs to be done, for it is an ugly rock, but there is a value in this ugly rock, that is currently unseen. Work with me on this, and together we will chip away at those rough edges.
We may have big chunks that need to be removed, but I will direct you as to what should go and what should stay. When all that needs to be removed has gone, we will then polish what is left, so that what is left will be utterly different. Instead of a rock that you want to run and hide from because of shame and worry, you will have a beautiful sculpture, that you will want to show off to all, saying, Look at what The Lord has done for me! He has turned my shame to dancing. He took my ugly rock, and just see what He has done with it.”

You may think that this is impossible, that this doesn’t apply to you, because, how could it, for you don’t see what my ugly rock is. But The Lord says, just read about Joseph in Genesis chapters 37-50.

Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, his own family.
Then after he was promoted to the head position of his new masters household, he was falsely accused of a crime, he never did, and was then thrown into jail.
All seemed bleak, but God was just getting started.
Joseph was elevated to number 2 in all of Egypt.
Joseph actions, saved many people, including his family.
Yes, even his brothers who sold him into slavery, were saved, because of what happened to Joseph.

In the end, Joseph was able to say to his brothers …

Genesis 50:19-21
19 But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God? 20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. 21 So then, don’t be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.” And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.

God is in the business of turning shame into joy!
Of turning mourning into dancing!
And Our God is Able to do All Things. Things that we think are impossible, He has a way, to turn it all around, for good.

So, will we work with Our Lord God, as He directs us?
Will we follow His path for us, so that He can then change our mourning, to dancing?

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After writing this, I then had my own Ugly Rock to deal with.
This then led to a mini seris of posts.
The next post in this series is…
It seems that I have my own Ugly Rock.

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Accept, Repent and Forgive, There is Power Here!

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When the darkness comes, Seek The Light!

When the darkness comes, it can be all consuming, Seek the Light.
When the darkness comes, it can keep you on a constant replay of things gone and done wrong. Seek the Light.
When the darkness comes, it can accuse you of all that you have done wrong, trying to tie you up in knots of shame. Seek the Light.
When the darkness comes, it can try to convince you to just run and hide, to just bury your head in the sand and wait for it to pass over. Seek the Light!

The Light is Our Lord God Almighty!
He does not come to condemn, but to set Free, those who are held captive in chains.
He is LOVE, and He Loves ALL. Even those who have gone astray and made mistakes.
He comes to make Good, that which has gone wrong.

Stepping into the light can be a painful thing to do.
Push past the pain. Press on into the Light.
As you do, you will start to see the truth, and The Truth will set you Free.
Who The Son sets free, will be free indeed.

John 10:10-11

10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.

11 “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.

Heavenly Father,
Please help all who are struggling.
Help them to seek Your Light.
Open eyes and ears, so that Your Light is easy to find.
Help them to step into Your Light, which sets captives free.
Please let Your Love and Peace fill everything.
Our Loving Heavenly Father.
Amen.

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He Who IS All Powerful, is able to stroke the butterfly wing.

OK, I know that the title of this post sounds a bit funny, but I also think it is very much so true.

Our God is Awesome!
Great and Mighty in Power!
He made the heavens and the earth. All that is seen and not seen. He set the stars in their place. He formed the earth.
The might and power of the volcano, He directed.
We can only start to marvel at how Great Our God is!

Yet this is not the whole picture. For our God also has Great Control!
Our God who Has Absolute Power, also Has Infinite Control.
He can work on the most delicate of things and not crush them.
He is even able to stroke the butterfly wing, and Not damage it.
He can even do one better than that. He can touch the damaged butterfly wing and bring a healing touch!

Our God IS Awesome!
Able to heal the broken hearted, with the most delicate of touches.

We just need to say yes to Him. For He does wait for our permission.
If we say no He will listen to us.
But He yearns for us to say Yes to Him. He’s just waiting to bring a healing touch to where it is needed. His touch might not be what we want, but it will be what we need.

So will we say yes to the One who is able to touch the damaged butterfly wing and bring a healing touch so that we will be able to fly, once more.

Lord God Almighty,
Please, bring Your touch of peace to all who need it.
To the broken hearted, bring Your peace.
To the crushed in spirit, bring Your peace.
To those who don’t know where to turn, please bring Your peace.
For You are able to make the difference.
Amen.

If you need to, then please dwell on the above prayer for as long as Your Lord God directs you to.

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Try to Not just dismiss someone’s problems/difficulties.

The title of this post has very much so been very relevant to me just recently.

I’ve seen first hand someone worrying over something that I think is actually very small, and should not really be anything to be too concerned about. No I will not be sharing the details, but I do I intend to share some of my thoughts/lessons I have learned, through the experience.

So, where to start?
Repeating the title??

Try to Not just dismiss someone’s problems/difficulties.

If we see someone struggling with something rather small, and what we think is rather insignificant, then it can be very tempting to just brush it off as nonsense. We could possibly be tempted to just say, “Oh come on, just get over it man (or woman)!”

How helpful would such words be???

This is were it can get very confusing right from the start.
For one person, the above words could be just what they need to hear. If the rebuke brings about a change of thinking that leads to holiness, then it could be just the thing to do.

However, if the person receiving the rebuff doesn’t receive the rebuff in a good way, then could it just become an extra weight for them to carry?

The extra weight could reveal itself as thoughts like, “Why am I worrying about this? This is so small and insignificant. Is there something seriously wrong with me, because I just can’t seem to let this go, even though everyone keeps telling me that this is nothing!”

Are you starting to see how this can get very confusing, right out of the starting blocks?

I’m thinking that the only place to start looking into this, is to ask the question, “Why are you saying, what you are saying?”

Are you operating from a position of frustration or love?
If you are operating from a position of frustration, then are you just unloading your frustrations onto someone who is already carrying a load that is too heavy for them, regardless of what you think about the lightness of their load?

Operating from a position of frustration is always going to be a bad starting point.
However, The Lord Our God can turn our bad starts around for His good and His glory. But how much better will it be if we can make a good start?

Could operating from a position of love be a better start?
I’m hoping that everyone is saying yes to that one. 🙂

A rebuke from a friend sent in love should be so much easier to bear with when compared to a rebuke from an enemy who just wants to taunt and ridicule you.

Do you want to be a friend or an enemy to the one in trouble? (No matter how small the trouble is.)

I’ve written about How to help someone who doesn’t want help in a previous post. I’ve also written about (in a round about way) why are you bringing a word of …… to …… in a post called A word from the Lord, or a word from the enemy.
If you are prompted to, then consider having a read/re-read of one or both of them.

If you do see someone struggling with something that you think is just tiny, then is there a better response than just, “Pull yourself together man (or woman)!”

Could you bring words of encouragement instead?
Words of encouragement from the Bible could be a good start.

Philippians 4:13
13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

Jeremiah 29:11
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

Psalm 73:26
My flesh and my heart may fail,
but God is the strength of my heart
and my portion forever.

2 Corinthians 12:9
9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.

The above are but only a small number of encouraging bible verses that can be found, in the bible.
The bible is actually just fully loaded with the Good Stuff. We just need to read it and be fed by it!

I think that I should try to sum this post up now, before it just becomes an epic full length book. 🙂

If a word of rebuke is needed, then can we bring it in love?
If a word of encouragement is needed, then can we bring that in love?
And Lord, can we please have the discernment to know what is needed, for any given situation.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonour others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.