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Are we too Pleasant to each other? (At times)

Are we too Pleasant to each other? (At times)

That may seem like an odd question to ask, after all aren’t we meant to be Loving to each other???

Loving yes, but does that also mean pleasant, kind and nice.
Hopefully the answer in general is yes, but are there times when we need to be, not quite so ….nice?

What does the bible say?
Does it advocate for us all to be pleasant to each other all the time, having the feelings of others as the most important thing at all times?
I do believe that the answer to that question is no.

The bible does say things like, “Spare the rod spoil the child”. It also talks about discipline not being pleasant but bearing fruit.
The other one that comes to mind is “Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline”, that last one is God talking to his Church at Laodicea.

When we think about the church at Laodicea, how often do we think, “I’m glad God isn’t saying that to me?
After all who wants to hear:
You say, “I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.” But you do not realise that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked. Revelation 3 vs 17

These are Gods words!
Not very pleasant for the Church at Laodicea.
But he still said it.
The real question is why?

I have already given you the answer.
“Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline” Revelation 3 vs 19
He Loves Them.
He rebuke’s and disciplines those he loves.

He also gives the church at Laodicea the answer of how to do better.
I counsel you to buy from me gold refined in the fire, so that you can become rich; and white clothes to wear, so that you can cover your shameful nakedness; and salve to put on your eyes, so that you can see. Revelation 3 vs 18

God saw that the Church of Laodicea could do better than they were doing, but they couldn’t see it.
He needed to bring a harsh word in order to lift them up.
He brought a word that was tough, hard but necessary.
He was more concerned about there well being than their comfort.
After all he LOVES THEM.

He also Loves us.
Are we ready to hear a tough word when he brings one to us?
If he brings one it is only because he Loves us.
Are we ready to hear it though?

Are we ready to share a tough word with someone if God directs us to? (Important bit at the end there, if God directs us to.)

If we are given a tough word to share then hopefully he will give us the wisdom to do it in a loving manner.
We can always ask for help when it comes doing the hard things.
He is always there to help us, if we have a heart that is willing to be lead by him.
We just need to ask Him to guide and help us.

I quite often think that, we can be so much like the Church at Laodicea.
But I think that is a blog for another day.

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The Lady Who Danced

There was a morning when the local churches had a joint open air service in the park. I can’t remember too much about the service but I can still remember something that happened afterwards.

As I was milling around with my friends I saw a lady who walked up to a point and then did a dance. It was a dance which looked as if it had purpose, but it didn’t look as if it was for anyone, as no one seemed to be paying any attention. Except for me, that is.
When she had finished her dance, she just stopped and walked off.
It looked to me as if she just walked off a bit sheepishly.
I thought to myself, what was that all about?
Who do you think you are to just randomly do a dance in the middle of the park?
I kind of thought that she might have been a Christian as we had just had a joint open air service after all, but that didn’t stop me from looking down on her at that point in time.

The dance she did has actually stayed with me. You see God spoke to me about this some time later. The words I felt God say to me were along the lines of:

“Who are you to judge the lady in the park?
Did she cause you any harm?
Why should your opinion matter in something which was not about you?
What if I was the one who asked her to dance and she then did it for me?
What if her obedience caused my heart to smile?
You see I did ask her to dance and she did dance for me which caused my heart to smile. Yes I saw you as well and and what was in your heart at that time, I just decided to deal with you later.”

Oh dear, looks as if I got that a bit wrong then, I apologised for my wrong attitude.
You see in the park that day were two people who was involved in the dance. The lady who did the dance and caused God’s heart to smile and there was me who saw it and had a wrong mind set which caused God to think, I’ll deal with you later.

Who was in the right place? It wasn’t me.
When God asks you to do something are you willing to do it? Or are you too concerned about what people might think?
Who’s opinion matters more? God’s or some stranger who you may never see again?
To the lady who danced, I would like to add my thank you to you.
You see God has taught me an important lesson through your dance.

God’s opinion is more important, and I will try to follow His promptings, in the hope that I too, can make God’s heart smile.

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A Rescue Line

Below is something I came across online somewhere.
I don’t know who wrote it but I have added a little extra at the end, so it is something of someone else’s and something of mine.
I hope you enjoy it.

A Rescue Line

Author: Unknown

After a few of the usual Sunday evening hymns, the church’s pastor slowly stood up, walked over to the pulpit and, before he gave his sermon for the evening, briefly introduced a guest minister who was in the service that evening.

In the introduction, the pastor told the congregation that the guest minister was one of his dearest childhood friends and that he wanted him to have a few moments to greet the church and share whatever he felt would be appropriate for the service.

With that an elderly man stepped up to the pulpit and began to speak.

“A father, his son and a friend of his son were sailing off the Pacific Coast,” he began, “when a fast approaching storm blocked any attempt to get back to shore. The waves were so high, that even though the father was an experienced sailor, he could not keep the boat upright and the three were swept into the ocean as the boat capsized.”

The old man hesitated for a moment, making eye contact with two teenagers who were, for the first time since the service began, looking somewhat interested in his story.

The aged minister continued with his story, “Grabbing a rescue line, the father had to make the most excruciating decision of his life: to which boy he would throw the other end of the lifeline. He had seconds to make the decision. The father knew that his son was a christian and he also knew that his son’s friend was not. The agony of his decision could not be matched by the torrent of waves.”

“As the father yelled out, “I love you son!” he threw out the lifeline to his son’s friend. By the time the father had pulled the friend back to the capsized boat, his son had disappeared beneath the raging swells into the black of night. His body was never recovered.”

By this time, the two teenagers were sitting up straight in the pew, anxiously waiting for the next words to come out of the old ministers mouth.”

“The father,” he continued, “knew his son would step into eternity with Jesus and he could not bear the thought of his son’s friend stepping into an eternity without Jesus…

Therefore, he sacrificed his son to save the son’s friend. How great is the love of God that he should do the same for us.

Our heavenly father sacrificed his only begotten son that we could be saved. I urge you to accept his offer to rescue you and take a hold of the lifeline he is throwing out to you in this service.”

With that, the old man turned and sat back down in his chair as silence filled the room. The pastor again walked slowly to the pulpit and delivered a brief sermon with an invitation at the end.

However, no one responded to the appeal. Within minutes after the service ended, the two teenagers were at the old mans side.

“That was a nice story,” politely stated one of the boys, “but I don’t think it was very realistic for a father to give up his only son’s life in the hopes that the other boy would become a christian.”

“Well, you’ve got a point there,” the old man replied, glancing down at his worn bible. A big smile broadened his narrow face, he once again looked at the boys and said, “It sure isn’t very realistic, is it? But I’m standing here today to tell you that story gives me a glimpse of what it must have been like for God to give up his son for me.

You see — I was that father and your pastor is my son’s friend.”

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The above is an account I came across. I don’t know if it is true or not, but as a christian I believe that it could be true. I’m also aware that people who are not christains could have difficulty in believing that the account could be true, as who would really sacrifice his own son to save his son’s friend? With this in mind I was given a picture which is listed below.

A father, his son and the son’s friend are standing on a platform at a train station. The son, and the son’s friend are both going onto a train but on opposite sides of the platform. Once the children are aboard the train, the train will depart and the child will not be seen again by the father. The son’s train is heading towards a holiday destination. It will be a great time. Fun, laughter and joy will be at this destination. The son’s friend’s train is heading in the opposite direction to a concentration camp. There will be pain torture and sorrow at this destination. The father is aware of where both children are going and he can stop only one from entering the train. Who will he stop?

As a christian I believe that the father in the above account, “A Rescue Line”, saw this reality in an instant and made his choice to save the son’s friend.

And there’s more…

I believe that the above picture is true for everyone. Let me explain the picture fully. The platform is life as we know it today. It is the here and now. The trains are death. Everyone is going to take one of the trains at some day. The holiday destination is heaven and the concentration camp is hell. The train we take from the platform depends on a choice we have to make. Those that choose to accept Jesus and ask him into their life are going to the holiday destination. Those that don’t are heading for the concentration camp. You may say that you haven’t made a choice to go on either train, but not having made a choice is a choice. It is the choice of in-action that leads to the concentration camp.
You can change which destination you are heading to by accepting Jesus now.

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I see a Vessel

This is a picture which, at the time, I believe was very much for me.
Hopefully I have now let God in that much more, it is the best option after all.

I see a Vessel

I see a vessel before me. On the outside it looks impressive, strong and altogether, but on the inside it’s cracked and broken, almost falling apart. It feels as if, if anything is poured into this vessel it will just fall apart, it will crack open.

God is wanting to pour his Holy Spirit on us.

The vessel feels that if God pours his Holy Spirit into it, it will break.

God does not come to destroy though!

No, he comes to build up. Where we have cracks He wants to come along and heal them. He doesn’t wish to see us destroyed. No, He wishes to renew us, rebuild us and make us like new.

The fact that we feel broken and not ready should not stop us from saying “Lord, come to me please and fill me.” No it means we need Him all the more.
He does not come to destroy but He comes to build up. But He can only do this if we let Him in.
So He waits patiently asking.

“Will you let me in. I wish to rebuild and renew you, to make you strong and whole, so will you please just let me in? Just let me in?”

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The Christian Doorman

There was a doorman at a great house who was very good at his job. He was warm and welcoming. He had that something about him where people where just drawn to him, and as they came to him he would repeat his message.
“Come on in and join the party. The Lord God waits for you inside!”
As the doorman was good at what he did, he would see a lot of people pass through his door and enter on into the party. This gave the doorman great joy as he knew he was playing his part in introducing people to….


“The King of Kings and Lord of Lords!”

Every once in a while though, because the doorman was so warm and welcoming this would cause a problem. This problem was that sometimes people wanted to remain with the doorman, he was very warm and welcoming after all. But each time this happened the doorman would quietly but persistently insist.


“You must carry on, and enter on in. You may think that I am good but there is one so much Greater than me just waiting to meet with you personally.
He is The Alpha and The Omega, The King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. The one who created All and knows Everything. On top of all that He LOVES YOU with a Love that goes beyond measure. You must enter on in so that you too can meet him personally. The Lord God Almighty is at the party just waiting to meet with you, just enter on in so that you can know him too, just like I do.”


You see the doorman knew his role and was happy to play it. He would have times when he was relived from his post so he too could enter the party to be refreshed and renewed. But he was always happy to go back to his post to play his part in order to be the sign post for those who were lost and needed to be shown where the party was.
He could always be heard exclaiming.


“Come on in and join the party. The Lord God waits for you inside!
He is The Alpha and The Omega, The King of Kings and the Lord of Lords. The one who created All and knows Everything. On top of all that He LOVES YOU with a Love that goes beyond measure.
Come and enter the party so that you can know him too.”